Examples:
like | friend | follow | thank | review | comment | join | commit | request | buy | eye contact | body language | hand signals
Respond in sound or movement, not
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Contribution β Pretext:
Why are we communicating?
Examples:
Shared Goal β team meeting
Shared Value β close friends
Shared Topic β comment thread
Interlocking Goals β marketplace
Unclear β strangers at a party
Guess at a shared value and talk about that instead of the shared goal.
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Contribution β Pace:
How quickly are we communicating?
Examples:
Off the cuff β improv, chat rooms
Asynchronous β texting
Thoughtful β journal and share
Contemplative β blog posts
Ask everyone to take a breath, a minute, or write a short paragraph on what they want to share before talking.
Pause for a really long time to think.
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Connections β Form:
How do we interact?
Examples:
In pairs β news feed
Teams β sports league
Whole Group β sharing circle
Disjointed β high school dance (in-groups/out-groups)
Turn to the people at the next table and ask them for their opion.
Medium - "Game-Changing"
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Audience β Loyalty:
Are people going to stick around?
Examples:
Loyal β dinner with close friends.
Trapped β WhatsApp group, open mic
Fickle β people passing on the street
Unclear β you canβt tell
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Audience β Time Together:
How long are we present?
Examples:
None β twitter, news feed
Brief β speed dating
Some β weekend workshop
Enduring β workmates, old friends, family
Examples:
Invited β dinner/camping trip
Uninvited β question time at a public event / comment in a public forum
Selective β standard barrier (e.g., university)
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Consequences β Durability:
Will what I say stick around?
Examples:
Ephemeral β Talking at a bar
Temporary β Snapchat
Searchable (w/effort) β Microfiche
Permanent Record β Twitter
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Consequences β Stakes:
How much will outcomes affect me?
Examples:
High β THIS MATTERS!!!
Medium β I'll live either way, but...
Low β who cares?